Stag/vixen relationship. Mainly looking for someone for her, and optionally someone we both can interact with. She doesn't meet alone, although playtime could have some portions of the time set aside for privacy for two if we're comfortable. A couple of times a month would probably be ideal, maybe more... :-) Especially with someone we get familiar with and she feels comfortable with. IM is not so good. We have this open on his phone, her phone, and the desktop computer, and there's no telling which one the IM is going to pop up on or if anyone is looking. Messaging is better. He may sneak a peek between meetings at work, and she may pop on and see what's happening during the day, but often we'll sit together in the evening to look over messages from the last day or two and reply to some that get our attention. Flirts, hotlist, likes, and comments are nice! At the same time, due to volume we rarely initiate a response to them, so a message is best if you want to reach out.

Mi persona ideal: She likes guys about 40-60 years old, tall, hwp, little to no facial hair, trimmed or shaved below. Someone who enjoys making out with a lot of kissing and caressing to start out, during, and some cuddling after.

We would eventually like to dabble in some couples play or maybe with another woman sometime, to sort of ease into that and see how it works out.