Happly married mixed race couple wanting to spice up and put excitment back into our sex life. We are both very much in love and devoted to each other. I am white, she is Asian. We have been married several years and are tire of the same old humdrum sex life. We have in the past played with and fully swapped with another couple, as well as had a MFM and FMF 3some. But she only agreed to these few encounters for my enjoyment. She also enjoyed it, but feels that its playing with fire. The few times we participated in this lifestyle, I enjoyed more watching her being sexulally satisfied and watching her being pleased as well as joining in and participating with the other man to fulfill my wife's sexual pleasure. I would like to find a man, married or single who I could get to know. Then introduce him to my wife. Then together convince her to have a 3some with us both. I wouldn't mind finding another couple to swap with, but because I know my wife, the female in the other couple would have to be Asian/Pacific Islander We are looking for quality Friends with Benefits, not quanity.

Mi persona ideal: My ideal man would have to be polite, patient, and definitely not pushy, or demanding. He would have to abide by our rules and respect mine and her limits. Age doesn't matter, single or married. But I would have the ultimate say if we was to get together.

Our ideal couples, or Friends with Benefits would be with another mixed race, white male and Asian female. Age does not matter. My wife feels more comfortable around Asian women. The couples we are looking for to play with will NOT pushy, demanding, or demeaning.

Again we are looking for quality friends with Benefits, not quanity.