Note that I am regularly in South Oxon UK Well, to the point, I am looking for a fuck buddy/friend with benefits, but I am not the typical man for this type of web sites. I am shy for a start because I don't want to annoy or hurt anyone, which also makes it difficult for me chatting up someone the "old" way. I am also not the type who is perverted, rough and sees trying sex positions as an olympic discipline. I am actually gentle and love cuddles. At the same time I love sex and passion so much and I am really fed up with relationships without enough sex or with having to feel guilty for craving for sex, even if it is from the own partner! I am not having this any more. If you don't get to eat at home, you would eat out, even if you don’t necessarily want to, wouldn’t you? Well, so maybe I should start things the other way round. I first want a fuck buddy before any strings are attached, but if we like each other and you love sex and intimacy as much as I do, why should I then want to try other pussies? Maybe this way I find the girl I want to stay with! Couple of notes after having seen some ladies profiles: [B][COLOR firebrick]I SENT YOU A WINK/FLIRT AND NO MESSAGE?[/COLOR][/B] Shame if for that rea you ignore me. Because it means there is something about you I like and I want to show appreciation, but I do not know yet if you like me. Send me a flirt in return and communication starts. Why? You may have seen I am more the quiet, calm guy. But to be honest I find it kind of stupid writing you huge novels into your already overfilled mailbox, when you probably don't even like me. [B][COLOR firebrick]NO PHOTO NO REPLY[/COLOR][/B] Shame again. Sorry I am writing all this after having read several ladies profiles asking if we men can't read/understand "no photo no reply". Sorry, please note there may be innocent reas for this! I understand very well a photo makes my profile more successful. But I can't. This is a sex date site and not 100% everyone in public appreciates a man actively looking for sex (that's why this site exists). I am working in sales and if any of my customers gets here by whatever accident and identifies me on here, I can close my shop/job! OK, I could add a dick photo, but that I find is a bit primitive and not very telling. So if you think without a (facial) photo I am dumb, or not worth replying, then sorry, I CAN'T DO IT!

Mi persona ideal: Any girl who agrees with my description above.