UPDATE- March 2, 2013- PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE INITIATING OR RESPONDING TO OUR CONTACT. Our original plan was to just find a playmate (female) only for both me and my man- without me playing with another man. I have come to realize that may be an unrealistic goal; wanting you (fem) to play with both me and my man without playing with your man. I am not anti-other man at all, just mainly focused on my first bi-experience. We also realize that on the surface and in the natural, I am the best 'drawing card' of me and my man. Though he is VERY caring, gentle- and has a great tongue, we both realize he is 57 and a little out of shape. However, though I am making some concessions, one thing remains firm; I will not play without him. Now, however, as long as he gets to play with your fem (and soft swap is fine with him, intercourse not needed- just kissing, and mutual oral) Then we are open to MOST anything that doesn't involve the 2 males touching each other! So, if you can live with that, perhaps we can play! Here is the balance of what we are looking for: And btw, we are VERY new to this lifestyle and don't even know the meaning of some of the terms! So, I will explain what we do and don't want. Thanks for bearing with us...Please note: 1. Preferably a single, bi-female. My MAIN goal is NOT another man (though within certain parameters as defined below, that can work) but a bi-woman- and her willing to play with BOTH me and my bf. 2. NO SINGLE MEN- PERIOD. Couples (straight male, bi fem) are fine- as are bi fems alone! 3. NO WOMEN WHO JUST WANT TO PLAY WITH THE FEMALE- IT ISN'T GOING TO HAPPEN; WE'RE A PACKAGE DEAL. She will play with my male as well as me (and I will play with your male- withing parameters defined below) or we don't play at all. 4. We want f/f and, m/f and f/m/f ONLY- same room or separate rooms. My male- for m/f or m/f/m is very happy with a 'soft swap' with the female (oral/oral only)- no penetration. 5. Once again, me and my bf BOTH realize I am probably the better part of our' package' to the naked eye- and he IS 57 (and maybe isn't as physically attractive as a younger man). HOWEVER (EVEN THOUGH THIS MAY SOUND DUPLICITOUS AND UNFAIR) , I WANT ONLY WOMEN AND/OR MEN 35 OR YOUNGER. PERIOD. AND I MUST BE ATTRACTED TO BOTH OR WE WON'T PLAY. IF YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH OUR SEEMINGLY DUPLICITOUS WANTS, THEN WE AREN'T FOR YOU. 6. Sorry if that's not what you are looking for, best of luck in your search! That being said, I am a 21 year old hot female with a wonderful 57 year old sugar daddy/bf. I have not experienced a woman before but would LOVE to do it! Please be height/weight proportional, white (or very light skinned) have a pretty face and be 35 OR UNDER. WE CAN HOST AND/OR TRAVEL. I am bi- bf is 100% heterosexual. Please, serious inquiries only! We are gold members. Thanks! Good luck in your search!

Mi persona ideal: female 35 OR UNDER, white or light skinned, height/weight proportional.